For a long time, the house is a symbol of home for Chinese people. With a house, you will have your own home. However, the year-on-year growth of house prices has made many people sigh that the huge cost is enough to make many people feel helpless. In the face of this situation, the problem of renting a house and getting married has become a major consideration for couples.
"I don't feel safe without a house. It's not just girls. Don't boys want to dress up their homes? When renting a house, they dare not decorate it better. If the contract expires, there's nothing left. Even if men and women buy houses together and bear economic pressure, it's OK, but they still need to have their own home. "
In the first two years, a survey showed that 57% of single women think that marriage needs to be prepared for marriage alone, which is 16 percentage points higher than that of men, especially 68% of only women think that they need to prepare for marriage alone.
With the post-90s becoming the mainstream of the rental force, compared with the post-60s, Post-70s and some post-80s' concept of "marriage must buy a house", the post-90s' concept of housing is more rational and tolerant, and more and more people accept "renting and marriage".
In fact, renting a house and getting married has become a common topic in China. In recent years, although the house price under strict control tends to be stable, it is not easy to buy a house. Many people have experienced the experience of loan deeply.
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There are also netizens who are clear about their life plans, saying that they can do different things at different ages. For example, a female netizen said, "if I am under 35 years old and the other party has strong abilities in all aspects, then I can accept to rent a house and get married. After all, what I like is the" talent "of the other party. We are still young and have time to struggle to accumulate wealth!"! But if I'm over 35 years old, I can't accept renting and getting married. Because I'm older, many practical problems follow, and then the economic pressure will be quite great! "
Recently, the topic of "can you accept renting and getting married" was posted on top trending searches, which resonated with Chinese netizens.
One netizen said, "as a man, at least in my opinion, I will talk about marriage when I have these things.". Even if the house is only paid down, at least there should be some, and the rest will be made up slowly, not for anything else, just for themselves, but also for each other's family”.
On the contrary of "no house, no marriage", there are quite a lot of netizens who can accept to rent a house to get married. On the one hand, the pressure of buying a house is relatively high, and renting a house is a relatively helpless choice. On the other hand, buying a house is not the only guarantee for both parties to "feel safe". Renting a house at this stage does not constitute a sufficient condition for marriage. It is important that the two people can work hard together in the future, maybe have it in a few years A "small nest", the pressure of life will be clear only through personal experience.
Some netizens think that we should first have a house of our own, then we will consider marriage and not accept renting. In particular, girls will feel that living in a big city is lonely and having a house can give them a sense of security.
Wang Jing, who has worked for three years, said that she would never accept renting and marriage. "One is that considering that it is not convenient to rent a house for marriage, we have to worry about the lease term of the house and the relationship with the landlord and the tenant. In addition, when considering having children after marriage, it's obviously not appropriate to have a house of your own. " Wang Jing also said it would be acceptable if they had enough down payment and needed to rent temporarily, but long-term rental would not consider marriage.
What do you think of renting a house and getting married?
Nowadays, the price of marriage houses in the first tier cities is still "extortionate price" for most people. In addition to the influence of traditional concepts, many women choose "family with houses" as their first choice.
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Through the heated discussion among netizens, it can be seen that whether to accept the rental marriage is indeed different from person to person, and there are great differences in the views of boys and girls. Some people think that marriage should be considered only when there is sufficient material basis, while some people say that they can work together to buy a house, and many views are not listed here.
At present, renting houses and running on the "three points and one line" is the daily life of the "floating people" in the first tier cities. "It's better to get married if you can afford a house," said Xiao Zhang, who just graduated from graduate school. "But at present, renting a house is only a temporary measure." you can still get a house if you pay a loan, and you can pay no rent. ".
